"Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. " -Helen Keller

Monday, February 20, 2012

Happy Birthday, Marty!

15 years ago today, my life irrevocably changed. 15 years ago today, my oldest son, Victor Martin Cruz (Marty), was born. 15 years ago today, I became a mom for the first time. Life would never be quiet again.
I am in awe of the wonderful young man he is becoming and I've got to applaud his fortitude. This year is his first year of high school and he has dealt with a lot. He had a bad reaction to allergy medicine that left him going from class to class in a wheelchair for the better part of the first semester. Despite all the days he missed while dealing with that, he kept it together, worked his ass off, and kicked butt in his classes. I am so proud of him and the work ethic he demonstrated.

Right now, I'm not sure what blows my mind more...the fact that the handsome young man in the picture above is the same person as that little baby I brought home 15 years ago or that, in only 3 years, he will be nearing high school graduation and going off to college. Wow...that totally blows my mind.

Happy Birthday my wonderful son. I am blessed to be your mom and I wouldn't trade it for anything.

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Happy birthday, Marty! Hope it is a wonderful day.
Happy Birthday Marty! wishing you a great day and a truly blessed (and kickass) year ahead!
Happy Birthday Marty!
Happy Birthday Marty! Hope you have a wonderful day! Also congrats to you Kristin on raising this awesome young man!
Happy Birthday to the boy I met over 11 years ago and watched grow into a bright and wonderful young man. The world will never be the same.
Happy Birthday, Marty!
Happy birthday to him! My oldest turns 10 in a few weeks and I feel the same way you do - just in awe!
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Michelle Buchanan · 684 weeks ago

Marty, this you you have proven yourself to be bright, gentle, considerate, a team player, a hard worker and a GREAT person... may this next year shine its bright light on you so that you may see yourself the way we see you! Great job! Happy birthday!
Happy birthday, Marty! Like your mom, I'm so impressed with how you handled adversity. I hope you upcoming year is full of smooth-sailing, and lots of birthday cake :-)
Very merry birthday, Marty! I hope that you have a great day and that this coming year is filled wth adventures and blessings!
Happy Birthday, Marty! WOW, you have certainly grown into a fine and handsome young man! I am so lucky to have met you and your family!!! :) I hope you have the best of birthdays!!
Happy Birthday Marty!
Happy Birthday Marty!!! you are a handsome fella. I know your Mom is so proud of you!

{visiting from ICLW}
Hi from IComLeavWe Happy birthday Matry and happy MOMiversary to you friend!
Happy Birthday Marty! Sounds like he is pretty lucky as well to have a mother like you!

{from ICLW} Lavonne @ *Our Wish*
Happy belated birthday to him!
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Broken Birds and Bees · 683 weeks ago

Happy birthday!

PS my husband is in the military! Nice uniform!

{visiting from ICLW}
Happy birthday!

PS my husband is in the military! Nice uniform!

{visiting from ICLW}
Happy Belated irthday, Marty! May your 15th year bring you much happiness and joy!
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battynurse · 683 weeks ago

Happy Belated Birthday Marty!
handsome!
Late to the party. Happy birthday, Marty!

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